We're always hearing that we could be having better sexa better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we actually hear the nitty-gritty details of how we might actually achieve those things? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the specifics.
But when you're less, well, preoccupied, you might be interested to know that there's some pretty amazing stuff going on while you're getting busy. For example, were you aware that your breasts can get off from a great roll in the hay? Or that having a good-looking partner may lead to a grander finale?
For people with a clitoris or a vagina, this is how to achieve an orgasm on your own terms. But we forget that on the screens, especially the small ones pornographyan orgasm is often performative. They can visibly ejaculate.
In my 20s, I was oddly committed to seeking out my orgasms from other people a notoriously unreliable source. I understand having to work through shame and body issues before becoming completely comfortable with self-pleasure, but I really recommend doing whatever unblocking you need to start to pushing your own buttons ASAP. But you have to promise to control your inner Cersei; a person can get drunk off this much power. The first tip comes from sex researcher and neuroscientist Debra W.
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When it comes to health and wellness trends and gimmicks, I consider myself a professional lab rat on board with anything short of amputating a limb. I've allowed acupuncturists to jab needles into my forehead, let a "strawberry lipo" laser penetrate 13 millimeters into my abdomen to melt fat, and had my vagina tightened with a laser. And yet, I've somehow managed to neglect trying the easiest, most satisfying, and healthy not to mention totally free!
From sleeping to working out to simply thinking, check out these surprising ways you can reach an orgasm outside the bedroom. From vibrators to masturbationthere are plenty of ways to make climaxing outside of intercourse itself just a little bit easier-or more fun. But, there are also some non-sexual ways that may do the trick too.
A woman's body is a powerful thing, with built-in pleasure packs tucked in different places. Mother Nature was not joking around when she granted the female anatomy the ability to not just have orgasms, but have multiple orgasms that can go on and on and on. It doesn't matter where you currently fall on the spectrum of climaxing, just know there are always things you can try to take things to the next level.
Suddenly sliding away from that peak is disappointing, to say the least. That's doubly true for women, many of whom find it much harder to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex. In fact, according to a recent survey, only 65 percent of heterosexual women consistently reach the pinnacle of pleasure during sex.