Emma Kaywin, a Brooklyn-based sexual health writer and activist, is here to calm your nerves and answer your questions. Q: My boyfriend has been talking to me about trying anal sex. I'm open to the idea, but I want to know more about it first.
Which is a good thing! Women who've been there and done that say it's a welcome addition to their sexual repertoire. But just like you must walk before you can run, you must have some sort of anal foreplay before you go for the full monty of anal sex.
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Ever since you first learned to masturbate, you knew that stimulating your genital region was the way to go. But it requires the use of a region that most don't normally associate with sexual pleasure: the anus. Before you read on, check out Part I of our backdoor pleasure series: Guide to butt plugs.
Takeaway: Safe and pleasurable anal play is all about following a few key rules. Anal sex can be a little frightening for straight guys - at least, at first. That doesn't mean they aren't interested, though.
First named by Dr Chua Chee, the A-spot is an untapped pleasure centre that could help you have the best orgasm of your life. The A-spot is an area of sensitivity located in the internal part of your clitoris - right at the back of the vagina. That's right, the clitoris is much more than the exposed tip of your vulva - it goes right inside the body and is a full 5 inches in length roughly the size of the average penis.
Is anal sex pleasurable for all men? Anal sex is often thought of as only being for gay men or kinky heterosexual couples who like to mix up their game a bit. Many men report that prostate stimulation can be a wonderful enhancer of their sexual pleasure, especially when they are approaching orgasm and during ejaculation.
AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. While homosexual men definitely are open to this area, heterosexual men can easily encourage their female partners to help stimulate their down-there region, similar to how you might suggest anal sex. From using hands and toys to lubricant, here are all the ways to find and stimulate the male G-spot… tonight!